Wedding is one of those emotionally-draining events of your life where you would sometimes feel nervous, numb or even nausea. The pre wedding preparation starting from the shopping of wedding trousseau to selection of venue, from preparing the guests list to deciding on the kind of wedding invitation card will leave your stressed.
The courtship that we usually call as the most memorable time of anyone’s life, seems to go at the snail’s pace; thus adding to your anxiety and helplessness even more! Remember you aren’t the only one who is feeling pre-wedding jitters, you are perhaps sailing on the same boat where hundreds of others to-be-married couples are also seafaring. So the most important advice is to just relax! The most amazing time and the best day is yet to come, but the key to relaxation is to take every-day as it comes.
Do not Stress Yourself with Something that is Probably Just in Your Head
It is quite common for a bride-to-be or a groom-to-be to have jitters of unwanted scenes at the day of wedding, or experiencing events that will most likely never happen! It’s quite common to have questions and feelings of uncertainties and usually, women experience it more. Remember, even Kate Middleton had these pre-wedding jitters regarding her dress! So, it’s perfectly fine to have them but it’s just not okay to stress and over-drain yourself because of these.
As the Wedding Day Nears; Jitters Disappear!
It is quite a rhyming sentence; but this is the fact. With the nearing of the Grand Day, either your jitters will completely disappear or will pile up more. Usually, with the onset of pre-wedding rituals, these tend to fade away. So, it’s not something that you should stress yourself for. Once your pre-wedding ceremonies start, you will be so engrossed and a focal point of everyone that you will just think that whatever you had been thinking was utterly pointless and futile.
Focus on the Memorable Moments with your would-be life Partner
Dating before wedding is something very common. To keep away the pre-wedding jitters, just recall and re-live the memorable moments that you spent with your life partner to-be. The lingering feeling of love will not leave any space for baseless thinking of yours. Remember anything memorable; like your first kiss, the first time holding hands, the photograph of both you on customized wedding invite, wedding shopping or the most romantic thing your life partner has ever said to you; just close your eyes to re-live those moments. The notion here is to pay attention to the positivity and keep the negative thoughts at a bay.
Am-I-Marrying-the-right-person Jitter!
This is one of the most common pre-wedding thought which frequently pops up in the mind of a lot of couples; whether you are a girl or a guy. Just a week before your wedding or like 15 days before your Big Day, you may just start introspecting and asking yourself some of the stupidest questions ever. “Am I marrying the right person?” “Is this right age to get married?” “Shouldn’t I have checked out a few other guys/girls?” It is perfectly fine if questions of these sorts are popping up in your head but don’t just stress on these questions a lot. You will realize that once you are married, everything will slowly fall in the right place. You will eventually be at peace and ultimately satisfied once the Grand Day is over!
The courtship that we usually call as the most memorable time of anyone’s life, seems to go at the snail’s pace; thus adding to your anxiety and helplessness even more! Remember you aren’t the only one who is feeling pre-wedding jitters, you are perhaps sailing on the same boat where hundreds of others to-be-married couples are also seafaring. So the most important advice is to just relax! The most amazing time and the best day is yet to come, but the key to relaxation is to take every-day as it comes.
Do not Stress Yourself with Something that is Probably Just in Your Head
It is quite common for a bride-to-be or a groom-to-be to have jitters of unwanted scenes at the day of wedding, or experiencing events that will most likely never happen! It’s quite common to have questions and feelings of uncertainties and usually, women experience it more. Remember, even Kate Middleton had these pre-wedding jitters regarding her dress! So, it’s perfectly fine to have them but it’s just not okay to stress and over-drain yourself because of these.
As the Wedding Day Nears; Jitters Disappear!
It is quite a rhyming sentence; but this is the fact. With the nearing of the Grand Day, either your jitters will completely disappear or will pile up more. Usually, with the onset of pre-wedding rituals, these tend to fade away. So, it’s not something that you should stress yourself for. Once your pre-wedding ceremonies start, you will be so engrossed and a focal point of everyone that you will just think that whatever you had been thinking was utterly pointless and futile.
Focus on the Memorable Moments with your would-be life Partner
Dating before wedding is something very common. To keep away the pre-wedding jitters, just recall and re-live the memorable moments that you spent with your life partner to-be. The lingering feeling of love will not leave any space for baseless thinking of yours. Remember anything memorable; like your first kiss, the first time holding hands, the photograph of both you on customized wedding invite, wedding shopping or the most romantic thing your life partner has ever said to you; just close your eyes to re-live those moments. The notion here is to pay attention to the positivity and keep the negative thoughts at a bay.
Am-I-Marrying-the-right-person Jitter!
This is one of the most common pre-wedding thought which frequently pops up in the mind of a lot of couples; whether you are a girl or a guy. Just a week before your wedding or like 15 days before your Big Day, you may just start introspecting and asking yourself some of the stupidest questions ever. “Am I marrying the right person?” “Is this right age to get married?” “Shouldn’t I have checked out a few other guys/girls?” It is perfectly fine if questions of these sorts are popping up in your head but don’t just stress on these questions a lot. You will realize that once you are married, everything will slowly fall in the right place. You will eventually be at peace and ultimately satisfied once the Grand Day is over!
